![]() ![]() Tap into those pillars in your life that know you best, and ask for support as you move forward. Keep in mind that you will grow in the shift and will rediscover yourself in new ways. Is there something you need to put down to make space for something new? The old saying, “nothing changes if nothing changes.” In fact you are choosing courage over comfort and become stronger, happier and healthier when you embrace a necessary ending. What I have uncovered is that you do get to the other side, and you rarely look back. Necessary endings is something I’ve done many times in my life and had to endure the uncertainty and fear that comes with the idea of losing the familiar. ![]() They don’t feel necessary when you’re stuck and can’t seem to move forward. Growth demands that we move on.” Here’s the challenging part. “Getting to the next level always requires ending something, leaving it behind, and moving on. Whether it’s a relationship, a friendship, a mindset, bad habit, a job or an old version of yourself it sometimes becomes necessary to end the connection and move forward. Things that have long been dead and taking up space.It’s resisting – and you can continue to bring light – but more light won’t help and you prune it. Sick or not well – at some point you recognize that things won’t help and they’re not going to get well.It explores the concept of embracing and. We acquire too much stuff – too many groups This week on The Growth Whisperers Podcast, Kevin Lawrence and I discuss Necessary Endings by Dr. It was all alive but the life of the company was in about 20% of its activities and the other 80% was taking up space, effort and energy. Too many buds – over scheduled – over committed to too many things.As he was writing the book and came up with the the concept of pruning, and spent time with specialists and Gardners and learned about pruning rosebushes and developed these three concepts for evaluating things in our lives that may require a necessary ending. Henry Cloud says we need to be pruning our lives and creating necessary endings so things can thrive. “One of the most important types of decision making is deciding what you are not going to do, what you need to eliminate in order to make room for strategic investments.”ĭr. Patterns are hard to change – and we tend to hold on to things. To everything there is a season – it’s not the forever but the season – and we should have necessary endings to seasons. Last year on the podcast, (EP 139: Necessary endings with Amy Schmidt) I shared my story and how necessary ending are a part of life. There is a time to plant but a time to uproot what we have planted.) Henry Cloud that sits on my desk and I reference it often and I think he says it best, “You know it’s time to put something down – it’s not serving your life anymore and it’s time to take action to make movement.”Įcclesiastes 3 (talks about beginning and endings and it calls us to end things. Necessary Endings gives listeners the tools they need to say good-bye and move on.Necessary Endings – A book by Dr. Knowing when and how to let go when something, or someone, isn't working - a personal relationship, a job, or a business venture - is essential for happiness and success. ![]() Stop wasting resources needed for the things that really matter. ![]()
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